Chapter 292

The Women complexities in Christian Practice
Modern Christian woman are compromised into a multiplicity of relationships to fulfil the Christian demands. The trinity of relationships spans from God, Pastor and the husband. The Watcher will explore these dynamics seeking to shed light on marriages and dysfunction.

1. God the theology of worship, ecclesiastical expectations and matrimony: a reflection on the abuse of women at the hands of Christianity.
   God has a desire to Husband the woman Christian woman and Christianity teaches women to love God more than everybody/everything else.
2. Pastor. The demands from the house of worship and list of services women must perform at the church
   Husband – the expectation of matrimony, duties and domestic requirements for a married woman.
3. The husband as a physical matrimoni/father of children male figur in the life of a Christian woman to whom she is acxountable to.

The thesis states that : it is impossible for a Christian woman to be matrimonially faithful to one man when she accepts the Christian faith. By default all Christian women are polyandirius as they juggle multiple relationships. The husband is at the bottom of the food chain as the other two husbands have spiritual attachments and demands upon the woman.

1. God: the universal Christian magma carta states that she should. “love the Lord her God with all her heart, body, all her mind and soul and love her neighbour as herself” . Anyone who loves her relative of husband more than God is not worth of a follower. This is a call for total commitment and sacrifice of all other “earthly” relationships as inferior to the ultimate divine demands for complete devotion. To love God with all simply means when God calls all other meetings, appointments and commitments can wait until “He” Gods demands are meet.
2. The Pastor: this is the one who is meant to be working for and with God, as such his requirements are assumed as divine and the woman is subjucted to the pastoral demands of the Pastor. The demands ranch from jenitry, physical work at the building , church attendance, social programs, literigical presence in the order of servicesand financial support. The God fearing and Pastor respecting woman must smuggle money from a non believing husband to support the Pastor and God’s demands through the Pastor. All wealth belongs to God and Abigail is their example when you husband is a non believer you can override his instructions and supply food for David. “There is a blessing when a God fearing woman disobeys her husband to please the man of God”.
3. The husband: is the man who married her and must wait until the other two men are done with his wife.
   He will eat cold food while the woman gives the Pastor a warm plate of food.
   He will sleep alone while woman is out on women’s ministry programs.
   He will look after his children while his wife is cleaning the church and on choir practice
   He has to work hard and the other two husbands will be given money by his wife, at times unknown to him or against his will. Christian woman will all she can to please the first two husbands.
   He is not a priority as the demands of the church and God Come first and him last.
   He has to endure the abuse as the Pastor and God have the final say in the affairs of his own home. If he is a non believer he must even be prepared to be totally sidelined as a devil except his money.

This Christian woman claims that she is a saint but in reality she is a spiritual adultorous woman with multiple partners on her bossom every night. This is what Christianity has turned Afrikan women to be: physically and spiritually promiscuous. Some because they spent time with God and the Pastor they noonger find value in their spouses and use their Christian dogmas to oppress their husbands into submission to them.

Many of these marriages have resulted in husbands also finding other women to marry to stabilze their needs and demand for masculinity, affirmation, acceptance and deficiency in their sense of value and dominance. When the Christian woman comes she shouts at him as a ” cheater” and unfaithful in her religious uniform from her multiple partners.

The dangerous and most unfortunate part is that women juggle these relationships under the guise of salvation, faithfully and u faithful and convinced of their salvation in disservice to their primary partner husband. Then even the primary partner is argued in the feminine Christian faith, for the physical busband psychologically is lower than the Pastor and “their God”.

These women will even cry when they kneel to the Pastor and kneel to pray to God, expression the primary husband wil never experience in voluntary gesture. This Christianity has given us harlots as wives and criminals as partners, worse when they speak in tongues and have spiritual gifts.
If a woman has a child from another husband she can’t claim to be Virgin to her husband and refuse her husband to have children from another woman.
The Watcher recommends that God must find his own wife to meet his needs , the Pastor must find his own wife and if she is a woman Pastor please find your own husband. Stop coercing and manipulating other people’s partners into spiritual/physical/emotional/psychological/economic adultery.

A simple advise to the young man who wants to marry is stay away from “married women”! It’s not true that God fearing women make the best wives, you have to join the que and wait for your turn after they are done with her.

Show me a devoted Christian woman and I will show you a spiritually polyandirius woman who is running between God, Pastor and husband (in other cases extra boyfriend or baby daddy). Who is fooling a who here in this religious circus? Even the woman at the well was told you “have five husbands, and the one who have now is not Yours”. The question is whose wife was she, and the same question is asked “whose wife are you”?. Who does she fully submit to? This also does not make sense!

I am the Watcher from the future living with you in the present with solutions from the past.
Maponga jiii Marara Chigaramboko ChangaMbire Svosve
Farmers of Thoughts